| Hi Friends, This is my first post. I have been lurking for about three weeks, reading the posts/threads of ReGroup and StayStrong. Through my reading on TAM, I found great value in the contributions of everybody, including KC, Chuck71, Stella, 2ntnuf, etc. This place is a lifesaver for me. I feel it's time to just start my own thread and get with the program. Here's my current situation: I suffer from codependency, low self-esteem and addiction. I had the most beautiful wife my eyes could have imagined. We we're married in the Ivory Coast. They speak French there. So I became a Frenchie and got with this girl and low and behold, we got married back in 92. Our marital life was a blast. She was just sooo fkking fine…..Now keep in mind, I am mixed. Mom from Germany, Dad from West Africa (RCI). I was also brought up a Mormon (sorry to spill some A1 on this steak…) I converted her from the Muslim faith to the Mormon faith and we had our first son. With the trouble in the country and war breaking out, I fled to the US. I applied for help and was granted to bring my wife and family here to the US from Africa. We've had our last child D9 in the US. We've lived an awesome life IMHO, visiting the outdoors, travelling, Disneyland, NYC, Washington, Hollywood… We had a great life as far as I can see… But then again, problems started to creep up. I guess I'll be forthcoming with more details in later posts, for now, here is the situation: My wife has left me. She left with our three children. She now lives across the street from me and I live in the old 3 bdroom. I will move to a smaller place soon. I love her to death but she has a protection order out on me for one year. I am ordered to follow domestic violence treatment in order to come before a Family Court and claim the right to talk to my children. My version is that I admit the wrongdoing. I should have never slapped her. PS.: She should have never cheated on me. | |||
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