| I am new to forum and this is my first post but I have been reading posts in the 'reconcilliation' looking for advice - My hubby told me the 'i love you but not in love with you' back in Oct 2012 two weeks after i gave birth to baby No3, i was devestated as oh had always been so loving and caring for the past 16y. I asked him to move out and he did but i could tell he was hating living back in a one room back in the barracks and he was due to go on a 4 month tour in Jan. I met up with him to go to mc (he did not want it but wanted someone to tell him how he could break the news to the kids) he only lasted 5 mins in the meeting and walked out, he was in a state and i asked him if he wanted to move back in for Christmas/New year which he did, he said he was going out himself for NY we had always spent it together, i went to my parents and after NY went home again it was like having my hubby back again, he was flirting with me and we ended up talking and he said he wanted to come back home but didnt say he loved me we 'got back together' but still have not slept togther for 8months and there was no affection from him. Saying goodbye he didnt say he loved me but did give me a kiss........so it has been 8 weeks and we been emailing i will write long emails about how kids are doing and he sends a few lines back, a few days ago it was our 11y wedding anniversary and he didnt even write to me and mention it so i sent a really long email talking about us, our wedding and my hopes for the future but he didnt respond only when i sent another email saying how our dd was doing at school did he resond to that....i feel really angry and have not wrote for a few days dont know what to do....any ideas? should stop writing to see if he misses me or keep up the friendly comms????:rolleyes: | |||
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