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Flirting vs. Spontaneity

I have a (semi-serious) question for the guys about Steak & BJ day.

I happened to pull some steak out of the freezer last night, totally forgetting about the big "holiday" today. This morning I saw some silly references to it on facebook so I sent one to my H via email and said something like "Well, I already have the steaks ready, I guess I'll have to provide the rest of the festivities too :)".

I got back an "LOL" but then he later said that I ruined the bj by announcing it ahead of time. This has come up before. I see this kind of reference as flirting with him during the day but if I say anything ahead of time, he sees it as me "planning" sex which he finds unsexy and it kind of ruins the moment for him.

I guess I should just take the hint and stop making references to sex ahead of time but I thought guys liked a little flirting/something to look forward to? Any other guys like my H?




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