How long before things go back to the way they were pre-affair?

This is actually a two fold question. After DDay and deciding to R, how long was it before you fell back in to the old routine? Whatever the marriage was like before the affair....just right back to normal? Or after DDay has everyone's marriage changed from the old routine to something bigger and better? I read somewhere that even after affairs marriages that stay together usually just go right back to the same behaviors after the hysterical bonding period is over, normally around six months or so most spouses report their marriage has not improved but they are staying together.

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