| I am suffering the worst of both worlds, the marriage has died but we are still in the same house My wife turned 50, having a midlife crisis, apparently her news years resolution was to end the 22 year marriage Last year she became close friends with a toxic woman who was divorcing her husband. On Jan 4th when she got back from her parents the hostility began and gradually became worse. The secrecy began, she locked down her computer, ipad, and smart phone and started leaving the house a 8:00 am and coming back in the evening and simply would not talk to me 4 weeks ago I searched phone records and discovered a number she called every day for long periods. I called the #, it was the toxic friend, I said sorry, wrong #. That day I took my daughters to the field museum in Chicago, while having lunch I the most astonishing call ever. Wife called and screamed the most hateful things ever ever said. "I WANT YOU DEAD" over and over. hung up, called again, and then again. I held the phone away from my ear and the tables around us could hear the hatred. I sat there stunned and afraid. When people say that to you you have to be concerned Finally we went home, walking into the house with a baseball bat to protect myself from attack She continued to go ballistic on me AND my daughters I quickly left. She moved out (to the toxic friend) went that day to the bank and took all cash ($61k) I controll the investment accounts, but most are joint accounts The next 3 weeks there was an occaisonal superficial text on matters that had to be dealt with A week ago she abruptly moved back. She has been advised that she needs to to re-establish residence to get the house (The house is paid for) I run my business from the house, extensive files, samples etc I would move immediately for my sanity but I can't I am going to a counselor to deal with this and have an appt to see a lawyer next week The hostility is severe, her goal is to get me to move out. | |||
| | |||
| | |||
|
No comments:
Post a Comment