I was reading the female orgasm thread and there was a comment that made me want to post this question about my situation.
I am nearly 44, divorced about 18 months, and two partners post divorce.
With my wife, I didn't get nearly the amount or quality of sex I desired (which is a story for another thread) however I always did 'finish' and often I had to work to hold off not finishing too soon.
With my 'rebound' which I started having sex with about the time my D was final, it was totally different. She was more aggressive, more generous, more oral, however it took me forever to finish and often I couldn't. Sometimes it went on long enough that I couldn't stay hard, but never did finish.
New partner-- similar to rebound. I can go forever and she will orgasm many times and then want me too. Usually I am still hard, but not always as hard as I can be, and many/most times I am not able to finish for some reason, though I do enjoy it immensely.
So, with ex wife, no trouble finishing- now, trouble finishing but partner enjoys it as I last very long. Not sure why I could finish at any point w/ ex and now it gets to be a struggle...
(also, FYI lately I have been using libido max as a sexual supplement; it is yohimbe, some vitamins, and other supplements that increase blood flow)
Would like to find a way to finish after she has gotten to the point where she cant go on (usually when she is on top for a long time...gets tired).
Thoughts?
I am nearly 44, divorced about 18 months, and two partners post divorce.
With my wife, I didn't get nearly the amount or quality of sex I desired (which is a story for another thread) however I always did 'finish' and often I had to work to hold off not finishing too soon.
With my 'rebound' which I started having sex with about the time my D was final, it was totally different. She was more aggressive, more generous, more oral, however it took me forever to finish and often I couldn't. Sometimes it went on long enough that I couldn't stay hard, but never did finish.
New partner-- similar to rebound. I can go forever and she will orgasm many times and then want me too. Usually I am still hard, but not always as hard as I can be, and many/most times I am not able to finish for some reason, though I do enjoy it immensely.
So, with ex wife, no trouble finishing- now, trouble finishing but partner enjoys it as I last very long. Not sure why I could finish at any point w/ ex and now it gets to be a struggle...
(also, FYI lately I have been using libido max as a sexual supplement; it is yohimbe, some vitamins, and other supplements that increase blood flow)
Would like to find a way to finish after she has gotten to the point where she cant go on (usually when she is on top for a long time...gets tired).
Thoughts?
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