Chivalrous acts in our Modern world.. Your thoughts, Experiences...

I tend to feel like this >

WOMEN ... do you CARE about these things anymore ?? Did the Man you marry DO these things at one time...while dating ... then STOPPED... did you marry the Gentleman type ...and he's remained - still holding true to these small acts of kindness to speak his care, even after vows, kids & beyond?

MEN.. did you once treat women like this- at any point in your life.. or do you now look at some of these "sideways" feeling it's just a waste of time...or what do I get back??...since often women don't go for the Gentleman type anyway.. and you find you are better off playing it COOL, a little hard to get / add to the "mystery".. this serves you better...taking lessons from "Pick up Artist" sites would be more your modern handbook...

I just really enjoyed the article, simple as it is..

10 Chivalrous Acts That Define True Gentlemen (And Make Us Melt) | YourTango ... thought I would offer a thread today... I still feel Chivalrous men ROCK !@#

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Here's to all the women who are looking for that chivalrous, good-hearted guy. He's out there—I've seen it. These are the things he does to make us swoon. (And to all those chivalrous, good-hearted guys, keep doing what you're doing. We love you for it.) 1. Holding the door. 2. Calling when he says he will call. 3. Avoiding games. There is nothing more attractive than a guy who doesn't beat around the bush. He lets you know he's into you, and he's confident enough that he doesn't care about playing it cool. He likes you, he's excited about you, and he wants you to know it. Amazing? Uh, yeah. 4. Meeting our family and friends. We know a man's serious if he will gladly meet mom and shake hands with dad. And then, meet all of our friends, happily tolerating the one he just doesn't get along with. We see he's not a fan of her sarcastic quips -- the fact that he's putting a smile on makes us all warm and fuzzy inside. 5. Small, public gestures of affection. 6. Making sure we got home OK. Imagine this: He's not waiting three days to call you. He's calling or dropping you a brief text just to make sure you're home and safe. Oh, and he also walked you to your car in that shady parking structure/dark parking lot (because those locations are scary). 7. Offering a jacket. 8. Getting the car when it's raining. 9. Stepping in during awkward situations. 10. He cares about your opinions, and shows respect. Women know when we're being taken seriously. We can tell when a guy wants to know more about us, more about what we believe and more about how we think and react. We can tell when a man values our opinions and respects what we bring to the table in any stage of a romantic relationship. It's what we look for most in a guy, and how we know when we've met our match. Do you love chivalry, or do you think it's dead?

Another site has listed... Saving the last bite of food, Suffering through a girly movie, Sending flowers, Walking on the outside of the sidewalk, Kissing her forehead..

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