Hello all,
My wife and I have been married for 2 years now and in that time I think we've had any kind of sex 2 or 3 times. At the start before we were married the sex was great. Almost every day and did lots of different things. Now it's pretty much nothing. No sex what so ever. We don't have children
We love each other very much and she is perfect for me apart from the sex. I'm not leaving her so please don't even mention that. I couldn't live without her.
On my behalf I do find it hard to cum while having sex so I can go for ages but need "finishing off" via masturbation. It never used to be like this.
I have tried to talk to her about having sex and I get shut down pretty quick. I've tried saying "You know a man has needs as well" I'm not sure if that was the right thing to say but I was getting frustrated.
I am getting to the stage of thinking I should go elsewhere for sex but although good a the time it would devastate her if she found out and I would feel so bad for her if she found out or not. I'm not a cheater and don't want to be but the urge seems to be building to do something about this no sex relationship.
Now I even think if she said ok let's have sex I would feel well she doesn't really want it so I wouldn't enjoy it either. I'm sick of playing to porn every day to try and curb the urge.
Can anyone help please?
TIA
My wife and I have been married for 2 years now and in that time I think we've had any kind of sex 2 or 3 times. At the start before we were married the sex was great. Almost every day and did lots of different things. Now it's pretty much nothing. No sex what so ever. We don't have children
We love each other very much and she is perfect for me apart from the sex. I'm not leaving her so please don't even mention that. I couldn't live without her.
On my behalf I do find it hard to cum while having sex so I can go for ages but need "finishing off" via masturbation. It never used to be like this.
I have tried to talk to her about having sex and I get shut down pretty quick. I've tried saying "You know a man has needs as well" I'm not sure if that was the right thing to say but I was getting frustrated.
I am getting to the stage of thinking I should go elsewhere for sex but although good a the time it would devastate her if she found out and I would feel so bad for her if she found out or not. I'm not a cheater and don't want to be but the urge seems to be building to do something about this no sex relationship.
Now I even think if she said ok let's have sex I would feel well she doesn't really want it so I wouldn't enjoy it either. I'm sick of playing to porn every day to try and curb the urge.
Can anyone help please?
TIA
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