So I just joined uni and in one of my lectures there is this girl I sat next to only 3 times so far. She always sits in a front corner and was always the only one there until I joined.
The first time I just joined with an empty seat between her as that was the first empty spot I noticed. We did not talk on that day except that she said "Front corner seat!"and smiled at me. I said "yeah"and sat down.
The second time I just sat down and said nothing and nor did she.
The third time I sat down next to her and entered in late as I missed the bus. She looked kind of depressed.At the end of the lecture I asked her if I could borrow her notes. She said it would be easier to scan it at the uni library as that was I don't need to borrow her notes. She then mentioned that she was having a bad day. We scanned the notes and she introduced herself and told me her name and I did the same.
Now I'm having a hard time making friends here at uni and I'm kind of awkward (and she seemed so too). By the type of questions she asked in the Q/A session and by our brief conversations, she really seemed kind and the sort of person I'd like to befriend. She is kind of really girly though (and I'm a guy) and I don't want to come off as a creep. I'm also just looking for a friend and not a date.
Is it a good idea? How would I go about befriending her? What should I say to her next time? Is it ok to ask if her day's going better? Why would she mention that she was having a bad day to me in the first place?
Are girls generally interested in having male friends? Of course I'm not 100% sure that she'd be a good friend but I want to try to get to know her and befriend her if possible. Everyone is extremely social and has friends and I litterally know no one in the uni so far. She is the only other student I got to converse with multiple times even if it was just for 3 days.
Put the internet to work for you.
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