When I read threads and the term "affair fog" is mentioned, it reads to me as if the ws was drugged, or not in his/her right mind, and needed to be broight back to their "right mind".
But for dicsussion sake, what makes affair fog any different than true love? What if the om/ow sticks with the ws (rather than doing what usually happens, and dumping them once the easy poa is more trouble than its worth)?? Does that instantly transform "affair fog" into true love or "the real thing"??
When ws have emotional affairs, what they fell imo is not a fog, its real...and the only reason it gets to be minimized is that 9 out of 10 times the ap is only there for the easy ass, and once they bail, the ws HAS to convince her/himself that what they felt was "fog"...
I aint buying it...I dont know the actual stats but I would guess that 95% of emotional affairs are only temporary, because the AP is usually there for no strings casual sex...but I would guess of all the emotional affairs where BOTH people, the ap AND the ws, are emotionally invested, that 99% of those end in divorce and the cheater remaining with the AP...
But for dicsussion sake, what makes affair fog any different than true love? What if the om/ow sticks with the ws (rather than doing what usually happens, and dumping them once the easy poa is more trouble than its worth)?? Does that instantly transform "affair fog" into true love or "the real thing"??
When ws have emotional affairs, what they fell imo is not a fog, its real...and the only reason it gets to be minimized is that 9 out of 10 times the ap is only there for the easy ass, and once they bail, the ws HAS to convince her/himself that what they felt was "fog"...
I aint buying it...I dont know the actual stats but I would guess that 95% of emotional affairs are only temporary, because the AP is usually there for no strings casual sex...but I would guess of all the emotional affairs where BOTH people, the ap AND the ws, are emotionally invested, that 99% of those end in divorce and the cheater remaining with the AP...
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