I have a bit of a problem with speaking to other people. I'm not really comfortable with speaking to people in real life and it can show badly, I struggle to think of anything to say. I can have a conversation sometimes that goes very well, but other times I judge the recipients reactions and they generally seem apprehensive about talking to me, or they have a slight smirk in their tone of voice or seem as if they don't want to talk to me/judging me in a negative light and in this situation I just switch off and stop bothering with the conversation.
Main thing would be making a new friend e.g. and breaking the barrier of person you see around and then becoming closer to people. I tend to struggle with that.
It's a weird situation because it's not as if I don't have any friends, just that I don't have anybody close, or it feels like this way. I have a feeling it's down to trust issues, when I talk about my secrets to people, I talk about specific secrets but I don't tell my deepest darkest secrets. I have always been like this btw. Also to sort of give you an insight on how I am a little. My personality type is best described as an INTJ/ISTJ.
Any ideas...
Tl;dr have friends, struggle to make new friends and don't really trust other people, sense that people judge me in a negative light from the way they look at me sometimes.
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