I searched for a "lessons learned" type of thread, and I didn't see one. Granted, I also drove away without my coffee from the drive-thru this morning. Life is a little extra "life-y" these days....
I am preparing myself to confront my husband on the things I've discovered (adultery, drug use, lying/stealing) and I believe we are headed for a contentious divorce. I am NOT a confrontational person and I am very anxious about what is coming. He, on the other hand, has no problem with arguments and has the capacity to become vindictive. I would like to think we can be civil and do what is best for the children, but you just never know what a closeted, angry cokehead will do.
I would like to know from those going through a messy divorce:
1. What mistakes did you make during confrontation, or in your divorce?
2. What do you wish had been done differently?
3. What do you think you and/or your ex did that was great? esp pertaining to the children?
I appreciate your responses!
I am preparing myself to confront my husband on the things I've discovered (adultery, drug use, lying/stealing) and I believe we are headed for a contentious divorce. I am NOT a confrontational person and I am very anxious about what is coming. He, on the other hand, has no problem with arguments and has the capacity to become vindictive. I would like to think we can be civil and do what is best for the children, but you just never know what a closeted, angry cokehead will do.
I would like to know from those going through a messy divorce:
1. What mistakes did you make during confrontation, or in your divorce?
2. What do you wish had been done differently?
3. What do you think you and/or your ex did that was great? esp pertaining to the children?
I appreciate your responses!
Put the internet to work for you.
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