Do you ever get the impression that the people on there think it is harmless fun and they won't get caught? I often think about how they do not realize the potential serious consequences of their actions? I remember when I was looking trying to find H's ad and I saw an ad for someone his age and it said I have a happy marriage but just need something fun on the side. Like holy smoke...it sounds so innocent I am sure to the guy writing it, but just imagine his spouse finding out.......
Hurt children, hurt spouses, emotional pain for years to come, crying, yelling, embarrassment, divorce, regret, possible financial ruin, etc. etc.
I don't get how you can say you have a happy marriage but yet are putting an ad on AM.
I have the feeling in my case because our marriage had started to become like room mates that he thought I would not be hurt by what he was doing and instead would be like fine I was not happy at times anyway so good luck to you, its been nice! I think he was honestly surprised at the depth of my pain.
I totally get being unhappy in a marriage but why people think cheating is going to make things better not sure.
Hurt children, hurt spouses, emotional pain for years to come, crying, yelling, embarrassment, divorce, regret, possible financial ruin, etc. etc.
I don't get how you can say you have a happy marriage but yet are putting an ad on AM.
I have the feeling in my case because our marriage had started to become like room mates that he thought I would not be hurt by what he was doing and instead would be like fine I was not happy at times anyway so good luck to you, its been nice! I think he was honestly surprised at the depth of my pain.
I totally get being unhappy in a marriage but why people think cheating is going to make things better not sure.
Put the internet to work for you.
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