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Hi All,
Posting here hoping for a male perspective on this but first a little bit of back story.
My husband and I have recently separated and when I asked him why he wasn't willing to try counselling his response is that I am no longer attractive to him, physically, and no amount od counselling can change the way he looks at me.
I would say for sure he's better looking than I am and probably has had prettier partners in the past but I've really never though he could see me as this unattractive. I wans't attracted to him because of his looks, there was a lot more too it than that and, if he appearance changed, it wouldn't affect how I feel about him.
As for me, I have changed a bit over the last couple of years. I was really sick, twice. Lost a lot of weight and haven't managed to gain all of it back. I've always been naturally very thin butmI lost muscle too so I guess I look somewhat different. The biggest difference is that my face looks thinner.
Anyway, he told me I'm basically a 2 in a City full of 10s and that he's disappointed because he feels he can do better.
All of this lead me to think: what physical charasteristics do you guys find attractive and if tou partner were to somehow change, gain weight, lose weight, just somehow look different, would there be any particular deal breakers?
Thanks!
Hi All,
Posting here hoping for a male perspective on this but first a little bit of back story.
My husband and I have recently separated and when I asked him why he wasn't willing to try counselling his response is that I am no longer attractive to him, physically, and no amount od counselling can change the way he looks at me.
I would say for sure he's better looking than I am and probably has had prettier partners in the past but I've really never though he could see me as this unattractive. I wans't attracted to him because of his looks, there was a lot more too it than that and, if he appearance changed, it wouldn't affect how I feel about him.
As for me, I have changed a bit over the last couple of years. I was really sick, twice. Lost a lot of weight and haven't managed to gain all of it back. I've always been naturally very thin butmI lost muscle too so I guess I look somewhat different. The biggest difference is that my face looks thinner.
Anyway, he told me I'm basically a 2 in a City full of 10s and that he's disappointed because he feels he can do better.
All of this lead me to think: what physical charasteristics do you guys find attractive and if tou partner were to somehow change, gain weight, lose weight, just somehow look different, would there be any particular deal breakers?
Thanks!
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