Ok first things first, mods. I'm not asking for sex advice. This is upsetting me and is damaging my relationship. More asking for advice on how to deal with it.
So, as the title says, my bf gets no pleasure or feeling from sex, no matter what position. I have considered some reasons such as him being circumcised, because he isn't the most sensitive and doesn't get much for oral either, and also maybe that I am not tight enough. However I'm 21, not been with that many men, and (crudeness warning) struggle to fit two fingers in. Apart from these two things, I dunno.
I should mention, we have spent almost £2000 in the past on sex therapy. This was because he had no desire and was almost scared of sex, like a phobia. After the therapy we can have sex, but it feels like I'm having sex with a dummy, because he gets nothing from it at all. I get physical pleasure from it but not emotional. It's actually quite bad emotionally, it makes me feel crap.
I don't know what to do :( We have been together two years, and I love him loads. At the same time I want him to get something from sex with me and actually want it.
Can anyone think of any reasons why he is like this? Can circumcision make you like this?
So, as the title says, my bf gets no pleasure or feeling from sex, no matter what position. I have considered some reasons such as him being circumcised, because he isn't the most sensitive and doesn't get much for oral either, and also maybe that I am not tight enough. However I'm 21, not been with that many men, and (crudeness warning) struggle to fit two fingers in. Apart from these two things, I dunno.
I should mention, we have spent almost £2000 in the past on sex therapy. This was because he had no desire and was almost scared of sex, like a phobia. After the therapy we can have sex, but it feels like I'm having sex with a dummy, because he gets nothing from it at all. I get physical pleasure from it but not emotional. It's actually quite bad emotionally, it makes me feel crap.
I don't know what to do :( We have been together two years, and I love him loads. At the same time I want him to get something from sex with me and actually want it.
Can anyone think of any reasons why he is like this? Can circumcision make you like this?
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