Six months after my separation, I've started dating. I am only ready for casual companionship/physical intimacy, NOT a serious relationship/monogamy. I am always upfront before I go out with anyone in letting them know I am separated, not divorced and the paperwork has been filed with the court.
I've met a few people I like spending time with and one "friendship" in particular has progressed to the best possible scenario - five alarm sex. :smthumbup: Honestly, it's so refreshing to go out to dinner, romp around in the sheets, cuddle, snooze for a bit, then go home. Sometimes I spend the night too but like I said - it's all very casual and fun.
I am 100% sure this is just a rebound thing, but sometimes I feel myself getting a bit attached. Sometimes it seems like he is getting a bit attached too. I'm not putting up a wall I just genuinely know we are too different to be anything serious/long term. There is an age gap as well. (Didn't intend to go the cougar route - it just happened.)
Is there a classy way to express to someone "this is awesome - for right now." I don't want him to feel I'm using him for sex (although everyone assures me men don't care about that) but it's not all about sex - I like and respect him as a person. However, I also want to be very, very careful not to foster any unintentional attachments on either end. I've had about all the drama I can handle this year.
I've met a few people I like spending time with and one "friendship" in particular has progressed to the best possible scenario - five alarm sex. :smthumbup: Honestly, it's so refreshing to go out to dinner, romp around in the sheets, cuddle, snooze for a bit, then go home. Sometimes I spend the night too but like I said - it's all very casual and fun.
I am 100% sure this is just a rebound thing, but sometimes I feel myself getting a bit attached. Sometimes it seems like he is getting a bit attached too. I'm not putting up a wall I just genuinely know we are too different to be anything serious/long term. There is an age gap as well. (Didn't intend to go the cougar route - it just happened.)
Is there a classy way to express to someone "this is awesome - for right now." I don't want him to feel I'm using him for sex (although everyone assures me men don't care about that) but it's not all about sex - I like and respect him as a person. However, I also want to be very, very careful not to foster any unintentional attachments on either end. I've had about all the drama I can handle this year.
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