I had been in a relationship before, and because of this negative experience it has prevented me from going out again, until I met this guy. He is really friendly, so I decided to give this guy a go.
We've been out not so long ago, however we have never kissed, hold hands, all we had done so far is a friendly hug. It is understandable since we are not ready to tell anyone that we're in a relationship yet, plus he told me he did not want to rush. The thing that has put me down is that I always have a feeling that he is putting me last: he would not talk to me unless he has nothing to do; he would give me more attention after he is done talking to his (female) friends; he has no intention to move our relationship forward whatsoever.
More importantly, I trust him wholeheartedly so I told him about a really bad mistake that I've made in my previous relationship. The reason why I told him was that I knew one day he would find out anyway. His response were "it's okay" and "I will have to live with it, don't worry" then he questioned me for the reason as to why I did that, why didn't I do anything for prevent that, and so on. His responses make me feel worthless, like he has to accept my mistake and move on with me.
Does he really like me? It seems to me that all effort that he used to put on me is gone completely :(
We've been out not so long ago, however we have never kissed, hold hands, all we had done so far is a friendly hug. It is understandable since we are not ready to tell anyone that we're in a relationship yet, plus he told me he did not want to rush. The thing that has put me down is that I always have a feeling that he is putting me last: he would not talk to me unless he has nothing to do; he would give me more attention after he is done talking to his (female) friends; he has no intention to move our relationship forward whatsoever.
More importantly, I trust him wholeheartedly so I told him about a really bad mistake that I've made in my previous relationship. The reason why I told him was that I knew one day he would find out anyway. His response were "it's okay" and "I will have to live with it, don't worry" then he questioned me for the reason as to why I did that, why didn't I do anything for prevent that, and so on. His responses make me feel worthless, like he has to accept my mistake and move on with me.
Does he really like me? It seems to me that all effort that he used to put on me is gone completely :(
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