Friday, I finally found out that my stbxh has been dating someone since May, when he told me that he could no longer wait for me to forgive him and left me. I now know that it was b/c he started dating his mother's best friend and next door neighbor.
He went out of town about two weeks ago and I had a gut feeling he wasn't telling me the truth on where he was going but I took care of the kids and worked while he was gone b/c it was his days to have them. I found out that he didn't go where he said he was going at all and spent the weekend with her b/c I found pictures of them together and with family at a wedding together.
He has lied to me so much and this just tops it all off. He sent her flowers and put on the note "I can't wait to hold you in my arms again. I love you. XOXOX The Love Muffin" I literally threw up when I read that. He already loves her? Really? This is the same girl that him and his mom used to sit around and talk about how mesed up she is and the type of guys that she dates and my husband is not that type of guy but they looked so happy together in the pictures and I can't get that out of my head.
I of course, confronted him on it and he just said he didn't have anything to say. He knows that in our state that dating during separation if we don't have a formal agreement and are not divorced will effect his rights to child custody, alimony and property division. He asked if I was going to destroy him in court and I said he destroyed himself.
I haven't been able to eat since then. I am working out still and will do that to relieve the stress but I am numb and empty.
He went out of town about two weeks ago and I had a gut feeling he wasn't telling me the truth on where he was going but I took care of the kids and worked while he was gone b/c it was his days to have them. I found out that he didn't go where he said he was going at all and spent the weekend with her b/c I found pictures of them together and with family at a wedding together.
He has lied to me so much and this just tops it all off. He sent her flowers and put on the note "I can't wait to hold you in my arms again. I love you. XOXOX The Love Muffin" I literally threw up when I read that. He already loves her? Really? This is the same girl that him and his mom used to sit around and talk about how mesed up she is and the type of guys that she dates and my husband is not that type of guy but they looked so happy together in the pictures and I can't get that out of my head.
I of course, confronted him on it and he just said he didn't have anything to say. He knows that in our state that dating during separation if we don't have a formal agreement and are not divorced will effect his rights to child custody, alimony and property division. He asked if I was going to destroy him in court and I said he destroyed himself.
I haven't been able to eat since then. I am working out still and will do that to relieve the stress but I am numb and empty.
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