So for women their prime, in terms of having the most options, would be age 20 to 30.
Now most people, who seem to be men, seem to think that men don't have an expiration date: men get hotter with age and they only lose their appeal when they get so old they're close to retirement.
But I'm not seeing this play out in real life.The internet is littered with stories of early 40s men who when they were younger were successful with women but now they've come out of a long-term relationship they find themselves surprised at how much attention they now get from women. Which is NONE.
Now my own situation is that I'm 23 and I was planning on playing the field until I am in my late 30s, yes that long. But someday I do want to get married, find someone great and perhaps even have children. Conventional wisdom tells me I can do that, after all men are not like women: we have a long lifespan in terms of datability.
But do you think I am leaving it too late?
If a guy in his late 30s had a good career & looked after himself is that still young enough to be attractive to young women ?
Also what age do you think men have the best combination of life experience, education, wealth and looks to be attractive to women under 30?
At what point do you think men go downhill? Like for example Brad Pitt was hot in his 20s, 30s and maybe even his 40s but in his 50s he would not get a second glance on the street without his fame.
Put the internet to work for you.
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