I dont know if this belongs in this section or the considering. ....we have uncoupled over a year ago. We literally only coparent.
We got into it pretty bad this evening. I kept my cool. But I asked a few questions and before he said there was a shred of hope. ..and this time he kept referencing that was the plan for us to separate when our youngest was a little older......But I picked up on this and he said conflicting information. I asked which is it? Done? Or still hope. He gets mad at me in an instant and says I was thinking worst case scenario as always and said yes let's be done. I am done. I am NOT being sucked back in the train wreck.
So my question is how do you live together but separated? It's going to be hard because I still am in love with him very much and had hope. Where he says he only loves me because he knows no better. I am DONE. I am not speaking in anger. I have decided we should part earlier. ..but he has this way of giving me hope. Not doing it this time.
So I am looking for strength. Advice.? I know I don't deserve it because I was the WW on an EA but I don't deserve to be called a ***** and so many other things all the time for 7 years. I have no job. Gave up my career for my family. I refuse to be called a leech when I am not allowed to get a real job because I will find someone.
We got into it pretty bad this evening. I kept my cool. But I asked a few questions and before he said there was a shred of hope. ..and this time he kept referencing that was the plan for us to separate when our youngest was a little older......But I picked up on this and he said conflicting information. I asked which is it? Done? Or still hope. He gets mad at me in an instant and says I was thinking worst case scenario as always and said yes let's be done. I am done. I am NOT being sucked back in the train wreck.
So my question is how do you live together but separated? It's going to be hard because I still am in love with him very much and had hope. Where he says he only loves me because he knows no better. I am DONE. I am not speaking in anger. I have decided we should part earlier. ..but he has this way of giving me hope. Not doing it this time.
So I am looking for strength. Advice.? I know I don't deserve it because I was the WW on an EA but I don't deserve to be called a ***** and so many other things all the time for 7 years. I have no job. Gave up my career for my family. I refuse to be called a leech when I am not allowed to get a real job because I will find someone.
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