I've read alot of these posts on this site. I just thought I would share my story and maybe get some feedback for piece of mind.
My wife moved out a little over a month ago after being together 7 years and married 2 of those. She said that she wanted to be happy and spend time with her friends. She is 31 years old, I guess 31 is the new 21. Anyway, when she moved out she took most of the property in the house which was fine. But here is the thing 2 days after she moved out, she was telling me I need to clean up the garage to sell the house. So basically, two days after my world went to the crapper she was demanding i sell the house that I made the majority of the payments on and the down payment.
I told her that I wished to keep the house and would be getting rid a vehicle (toy) that I have a large amount of equity in and buy her out. She agreed.
Fast forward 3 to 4 weeks. She stopped by the house to pick up some other things while I was gone. She began texting me that I need to clean the garage and she was going to call an appraiser. I texted her back and informed her again that we agreed that I would buy her out and once the vehicle sells which should be by mid May then when can move forward. She started texting back that she has been patient, that she wants it done. Well, this was the kicker. I had been nice to her and hoping to work things out. I did her taxes, I watched her dog when she was gone. I left her alone. I would occasionally get a random text of "how are you" or a pic sent of the dog.
After this I decided to go ahead and seek legal counsel. I had became fed up with her demands while in the marriage and now while separated. I e-mailed her to ask her if I could give her a call this weekend to discuss some things. Her response was "that is probably not a good idea". So I just laid it out in an e-mail. I told her about the initiation of the divorce paperwork and asked her if she would be willing to meet with the attorney since I do not have her current address.
It has been 3 days since this. And I have not heard a response.. I don't get it. She left. She acts like I'm a stalker or something since she would not tell me her address. I thought she would be happy that I filed. I thought we could remain civil and cooperative but I guess not. I give up. I still feel horrible about filing the motion. Any insight on what may be going through her mind?
My wife moved out a little over a month ago after being together 7 years and married 2 of those. She said that she wanted to be happy and spend time with her friends. She is 31 years old, I guess 31 is the new 21. Anyway, when she moved out she took most of the property in the house which was fine. But here is the thing 2 days after she moved out, she was telling me I need to clean up the garage to sell the house. So basically, two days after my world went to the crapper she was demanding i sell the house that I made the majority of the payments on and the down payment.
I told her that I wished to keep the house and would be getting rid a vehicle (toy) that I have a large amount of equity in and buy her out. She agreed.
Fast forward 3 to 4 weeks. She stopped by the house to pick up some other things while I was gone. She began texting me that I need to clean the garage and she was going to call an appraiser. I texted her back and informed her again that we agreed that I would buy her out and once the vehicle sells which should be by mid May then when can move forward. She started texting back that she has been patient, that she wants it done. Well, this was the kicker. I had been nice to her and hoping to work things out. I did her taxes, I watched her dog when she was gone. I left her alone. I would occasionally get a random text of "how are you" or a pic sent of the dog.
After this I decided to go ahead and seek legal counsel. I had became fed up with her demands while in the marriage and now while separated. I e-mailed her to ask her if I could give her a call this weekend to discuss some things. Her response was "that is probably not a good idea". So I just laid it out in an e-mail. I told her about the initiation of the divorce paperwork and asked her if she would be willing to meet with the attorney since I do not have her current address.
It has been 3 days since this. And I have not heard a response.. I don't get it. She left. She acts like I'm a stalker or something since she would not tell me her address. I thought she would be happy that I filed. I thought we could remain civil and cooperative but I guess not. I give up. I still feel horrible about filing the motion. Any insight on what may be going through her mind?
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