I have been seeing this guy for around 7 months, we are both 21.
We were talking about contraception and we both agreed that we needed to be safer when it came to it. So I suggested I will go on the pill.
He then said something to me that I didn't quite know how to take. He said to me ''Well you better take it because I don't want a kid with you, I would never have a kid with you'' he said it in a really spiteful way, I felt as if he thought I was trying to trap him or something and I felt in that moment that I liked him more than he liked me? I have no idea but that's how it came across and whilst that's fair enough like he doesn't want kids and I don't either yet, I just found that a bit harsh?
I'm good enough to have sex with, I'm good enough for him to tell me he ''loves me'' but apparently I am not Mother material? I have no idea, but it really upset me, especially the way he said it, as if I wasn't good enough to be a Mother or that there was something wrong with me
Am I normal in feeling upset about this? or have i just lost my mind a bit?
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