I have been reading Surviving Infidelity and am impressed by their wayward forum which includes stop signs so that original posters only get responses from other wayward spouses.
This protects the adulterous spouse from being dressed down by angry betrayed spouses. A woman who has been called a "wh*re" and "slvt" by her angry husband doesn't need other angry husbands saying much the same. She may want advice and encouragement from a wayward who can help her to empathize with her BH.
On SI's wayward forum there are many threads that TAM covers but usually only from the point of view of the betrayed. This limits the depth of insight. Here are a few examples:
1) On TAM betrayed spouse wonder if they are sexually attractive to the wayward. Are they good enough in bed/exciting?
Reading waywards discuss this frankly amongst themselves gives insight.
2) Trickle truth – how does one wayward who is farther along explain to a newbie why trickle truth can destroy reconciliation?
3) The infamous fog and breaking NC
When a betrayed spouse reads about this from the other side they can better understand the psychological process.
The point with allowing wayward spouses more space on TAM is to improve the members experience.
This protects the adulterous spouse from being dressed down by angry betrayed spouses. A woman who has been called a "wh*re" and "slvt" by her angry husband doesn't need other angry husbands saying much the same. She may want advice and encouragement from a wayward who can help her to empathize with her BH.
On SI's wayward forum there are many threads that TAM covers but usually only from the point of view of the betrayed. This limits the depth of insight. Here are a few examples:
1) On TAM betrayed spouse wonder if they are sexually attractive to the wayward. Are they good enough in bed/exciting?
Reading waywards discuss this frankly amongst themselves gives insight.
2) Trickle truth – how does one wayward who is farther along explain to a newbie why trickle truth can destroy reconciliation?
3) The infamous fog and breaking NC
When a betrayed spouse reads about this from the other side they can better understand the psychological process.
The point with allowing wayward spouses more space on TAM is to improve the members experience.
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