Hi
Due to my ill health my husband and I have hardly had sex in four years - partly due to he pain I was in but also because all my positive/sexual emotions switched off. Things have changed for me dramatically over the past few months and, after a long talk with my husband, I realised that I have neglected him and our marriage.
My question is I would have thought that my initiating intimacy with him would have been a positive thing and get a good response. However he keeps telling me that he needs time and it's been a long time. It is confusing me a little. Also even if he takes over from masterbating (himself) he can't always come and seems frustrated. I asked if it was me and again he said "it's been a long time".
FYI he has instigated intimacy more times than I have.
Any advice gratefully received x
Due to my ill health my husband and I have hardly had sex in four years - partly due to he pain I was in but also because all my positive/sexual emotions switched off. Things have changed for me dramatically over the past few months and, after a long talk with my husband, I realised that I have neglected him and our marriage.
My question is I would have thought that my initiating intimacy with him would have been a positive thing and get a good response. However he keeps telling me that he needs time and it's been a long time. It is confusing me a little. Also even if he takes over from masterbating (himself) he can't always come and seems frustrated. I asked if it was me and again he said "it's been a long time".
FYI he has instigated intimacy more times than I have.
Any advice gratefully received x
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