Hey guys, there is a lot to say so I will try and summarise at the end.
To keep it as brief as possible, there is a guy I met at uni who is in his final year and I have known him for a while. We started talking more frequently last month and it turns out that we have loads in common and definitely a connection.
Anyway, we went out for lunch together and it was really fun. We kept talking after that and then invited me to his place to play D&D with him and his friends. Again, we had a really great time and we were flirting quite a bit. I was meant to go home but it was the bank holiday and the trains were messing up. While I was trying to sort things we watched a movie and again, we were flirty. In the end every site said something different so I asked if it would be ok for me to crash on the sofa.
He said that I could take his bed and he would go downstairs and he got me some pajamas. His friends left. Then we played video games and cuddled, and finally we started watching another film and he offered me a massage. I also gave him one. We also had a pillow fight and I felt like we were going to kiss, We just chilled a bit after that, singing along to stuff on Youtube and just having fun. Then he said he had to go to bed and huged me goodnight many times. He looked at me, went to kiss me by my lips and I just kissed him. He then said that he wanted to kiss me but he had just got out of a 3 year relationship, his parents destroyed everything and they had problems, and he wasn't in a good place emotionally. He said he was really sorry for leading me on and that he wished he could give me a relationship.
We then (stupidly or not, I dunno) ended up fooling around the rest of the night. He told me that things still stand as they are. He then suggested us having fun and being friends, basically FWB. I asked him if that was ok while he was in this state. He says he regrets and will not regret anything. I took a day to think it over and agreed. I do want to have some fun and this guy is really great.
I never saw myself in a situation like this. I really like the guy and am playing down my feelings. We get on so well, we do the same course (nursing) and really get each other well. I love having him as a friend and I would hate to lose it all if this goes wrong. I guess I would just like some advice about the whole situation. I don't want to pressure him in any way seeing as his relationship ended badly and I don't want to be selfish. Sorry for the enormous essay. Any advice is much appreciated.
TL:DR, In a FWB situation cos the guy is not in the right place for a relationship and I'm trying not to fall for the guy. What to do?
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