So, after dumping my ex-GF 2 days from V-day I have found myself in a predicament - I'm now in a dry spell for over a month.
The advice from the majority seems to be "focus on yourself RD, stay away from the ladies!" Which is admittedly, a very difficult temptation to resist, especially with daily flutters. However, it's much easier to resist when one has an outlet for his sex drive yes? So...
Masturbation for the win!
BUT! I have noticed the hand, as great as it is in giving myself sexual pleasure, it diminishes my ability to perform as a lover later down the track. I noticed this especially during my early seperation dry spell. I needed time to readjust back to my jackhammering self! It wasn't the ideal "welcome back to having a sex life" experience for me or my partners, and I'd rather not embarrass myself again!
So, I am considering entertaining the idea of buying a male masturbatory aid, as long as I can get off it and ram a lady straight away without complications or loss of performance.
Besides - I am an opportunist :D So who knows what lies around the corner yes?
Question is - does the fleshlight even work? How does it feel like inside? How is it used? Do I hold and ram it using my hips? How about maintenance? First hand experiences please!
The advice from the majority seems to be "focus on yourself RD, stay away from the ladies!" Which is admittedly, a very difficult temptation to resist, especially with daily flutters. However, it's much easier to resist when one has an outlet for his sex drive yes? So...
Masturbation for the win!
BUT! I have noticed the hand, as great as it is in giving myself sexual pleasure, it diminishes my ability to perform as a lover later down the track. I noticed this especially during my early seperation dry spell. I needed time to readjust back to my jackhammering self! It wasn't the ideal "welcome back to having a sex life" experience for me or my partners, and I'd rather not embarrass myself again!
So, I am considering entertaining the idea of buying a male masturbatory aid, as long as I can get off it and ram a lady straight away without complications or loss of performance.
Besides - I am an opportunist :D So who knows what lies around the corner yes?
Question is - does the fleshlight even work? How does it feel like inside? How is it used? Do I hold and ram it using my hips? How about maintenance? First hand experiences please!
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