Hi all,
I am almost 39 years old and been married for 13 years. Before I got married I had a very long relationship (6 years) and was unfaithful to that girlfriend a few times, she found out and broke up with me, it was very hard for me and I learned my lesson. I never been unfaithful to my wife.
When we were dating the sex was great and there were no rules about it, then we got married things slowed down a bit and she started to have this rules and she started to criticize me about sex.
*Sex only on weekends
*No kissing (turns out I am a bad kisser)
*No crazy places, just bed
*Hurry up
*Don't grope me
*Stop looking me like that
When we got married I started to gain weight and let go of myself a little bit, on the other hand she has become hotter with age and I really love her and found her incredible hot, I am lucky to have a wife that gets me horny just by looking at her. About three years ago I decided to
change my habits and lost a lot of weight and got in the best shape of my life, I tough it may help her to find me more desirable. The sex got a little better, but still the rules and amount of sex did not change.
To be honest she is very clear about what gets her in the mood but given our busy lives some of the things that could get me more sex are very difficult, she likes to have sex more in the day that at night (I work and we have two kids, not an easy time). She likes me to spend a lot of time romancing her, talking sweet to her.I try this and sometimes it works, but mainly the result is a "You are the best husband, but is late and I am tired", "I am not in the mood" "Yo can rub yourself against me and finish yourself".
I about to turn 40 I been having sex 3 times a month for the past 13 years I am married to a woman I love and desire a lot, and all I want is to have more sex with her... HOW CAN I DO THIS? Its really frustrating and I started having this feeling that I am missing out. If a woman loves you a desires you is 3 times a month a normal sex life, maybe I am overreaching and it just does not get better than this...
I am almost 39 years old and been married for 13 years. Before I got married I had a very long relationship (6 years) and was unfaithful to that girlfriend a few times, she found out and broke up with me, it was very hard for me and I learned my lesson. I never been unfaithful to my wife.
When we were dating the sex was great and there were no rules about it, then we got married things slowed down a bit and she started to have this rules and she started to criticize me about sex.
*Sex only on weekends
*No kissing (turns out I am a bad kisser)
*No crazy places, just bed
*Hurry up
*Don't grope me
*Stop looking me like that
When we got married I started to gain weight and let go of myself a little bit, on the other hand she has become hotter with age and I really love her and found her incredible hot, I am lucky to have a wife that gets me horny just by looking at her. About three years ago I decided to
change my habits and lost a lot of weight and got in the best shape of my life, I tough it may help her to find me more desirable. The sex got a little better, but still the rules and amount of sex did not change.
To be honest she is very clear about what gets her in the mood but given our busy lives some of the things that could get me more sex are very difficult, she likes to have sex more in the day that at night (I work and we have two kids, not an easy time). She likes me to spend a lot of time romancing her, talking sweet to her.I try this and sometimes it works, but mainly the result is a "You are the best husband, but is late and I am tired", "I am not in the mood" "Yo can rub yourself against me and finish yourself".
I about to turn 40 I been having sex 3 times a month for the past 13 years I am married to a woman I love and desire a lot, and all I want is to have more sex with her... HOW CAN I DO THIS? Its really frustrating and I started having this feeling that I am missing out. If a woman loves you a desires you is 3 times a month a normal sex life, maybe I am overreaching and it just does not get better than this...
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