I have been married for five years. I lived what I thought was a happy and fruitful marriage. My wife and I have one beautiful child together. In the end of 2011 I was on a routine mission in Afghanistan and my truck was hit by an IED (improvised explosive device). I was lucky and didnt lose any limbs or any friends. I did however receive a major brain concussion, followed by a major brain injury and a bad case of PTSD. I have a lot of trouble driving etc. I have been going to counseling, I take medication religiously and do my part as a I should. I am on disability from the VA as well as SSI disability. I have been taken care of, and eternally grateful. I went through a full year where I couldn't get a job and when I did I was let go because of my issues. I stay at home and care for my child. I take her to school pick her up, help her with her homework. I do everything, clean the house, make dinner do the yard work, fix the cars etc. I am happy to do it and most of it I enjoy. My wife works hard and on average doe around 40 to 50 hours a week. I still make more then she does, but we split our finances in half and whatever is left after obligation s is split between us evenly. I recently went to AT&T with her phone that had broken the day before. They said they couldnt fix it and the place down the street wanted to charge us 400 to fix it. So I went online bought the parts and did it myself. It wasnt very hard. After I put it on the charger for an hour I went to go turn it on. It was already on and there her Aim app open. She had been talking to an ex, She had sent pictures and everything. This isnt the first time either. We went to counseling a while back for this very thing. I told her the first time if it happened again I would seek a divorce. I am doing just that. I am going to go get an attorney next week, already have an appointment. She doesnt know and wont until I file. I have taken pict ures of the phone and made copies of the texts. The reason why I am on here today is to find out what else I should do to protect myself. Am I going to have to pay child support even though I care for our child more then five days a week. What should I expect? Should I install a key logger on her computer as well? If so which ones are good? Any help will be appreciated. Thank you in advance.
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