How long did it take the WS to get over the AP?

I was curious about this. I've learned that it takes the BS years to get over an affair, but how long did it take the unfaithful spouse to get over the AP? This question is for both the BSs and WSs out there.
For the BSs: do you think that your WS ever stops longing for the AP?
For the WS: do you ever truly get over the AP?

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