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Would this put you off the guy you were dating/ is it a red warning flag?

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So I'm dating this incredibly smart, funny guy. We get a long really well and he seems to be good boyfriend material in that he wants to talk to me on the phone pretty much every night we're not in person/ is putting effort in e.g cooked me a roast dinner. However, we haven't had sex yet (I won't have sex unless I'm in a relationship) and he suggested that before I see him this week, that the beauty salon near his house has a deal for hollywood waxing on.

This worried me a lot because a. I do groom but not with wax and do not wish to and it feels strange that he was comfortable suggesting something like that so early on b. I am not ready to sleep with him yet and his reaction to me stating this again was something a long the lines of 'I'm reasonably confident that you will feel differently on tuesday'. If I'm honest, I felt like he has been quite impatient with the physical side of things but then he is older and it seems like most women his age have a 'three date rule'. c. Also at one point he made it clear that he really wants to have a threesome, I made it clear that the thought of having one really turns me off, I don't think it's a good idea and the mere suggestion made me feel uncomfortable. He then brought it up again a week later. If this is honestly something he feels like he has to try once should I let him go because I am definitely not up for trying it?

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