Hi all
My partner is receiving treatment for porn addiction that he has been doing over the last 3 years in our relationship.
He broke down and confessed all about a month ago about his porn, lies.
Yesterday I needed reassurance because of something that was innocent but i related it to his lies in the past. He got angry and couldnt understand why I had to question him because he had done nothing wrong. When I explained that I connected it to his lies he said 'Are we going to have to talk about ths forever', and 'things were going well and all of a sudden theres a drop'
So most of the day I was annoyed and I felt I got a half apology which wasnt sincere. He was also being defensive and stubborn and thinks that his move to therapy should be enough to heal the realtionship and dosnt 'get it' when I try to explain my feelings.
:scratchhead:
My partner is receiving treatment for porn addiction that he has been doing over the last 3 years in our relationship.
He broke down and confessed all about a month ago about his porn, lies.
Yesterday I needed reassurance because of something that was innocent but i related it to his lies in the past. He got angry and couldnt understand why I had to question him because he had done nothing wrong. When I explained that I connected it to his lies he said 'Are we going to have to talk about ths forever', and 'things were going well and all of a sudden theres a drop'
So most of the day I was annoyed and I felt I got a half apology which wasnt sincere. He was also being defensive and stubborn and thinks that his move to therapy should be enough to heal the realtionship and dosnt 'get it' when I try to explain my feelings.
:scratchhead:
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