I love you but I'm not in love with you. This is what my wife recently told me. We have recently moved into separate houses. We are both still wearing our wedding bands and have not filed for divorce or separation. I stay at her place most of the time and she is still somewhat affectionate to me. Just a lot of circumstances have arisen that have caused a distance.
She has asked me to go to a psychiatrist to try to deal with depression that has caused problems in our marriage. We also had a marriage counseling session scheduled but she does not want to go to that at this point. She wants me to focus on myself and then she said she will go to marriage counseling.
SO, the question in my mind is how do I deal with her comment that she is not in love with me. That statement usually is made when someone finds someone else. She swears up and down that there is nobody else, but it's still hard not to wonder.
She has asked me to go to a psychiatrist to try to deal with depression that has caused problems in our marriage. We also had a marriage counseling session scheduled but she does not want to go to that at this point. She wants me to focus on myself and then she said she will go to marriage counseling.
SO, the question in my mind is how do I deal with her comment that she is not in love with me. That statement usually is made when someone finds someone else. She swears up and down that there is nobody else, but it's still hard not to wonder.
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