Hello. Its my first time posting. Nice to meet you all.
So my husband has been drifting away from me for a few months now. He rarely talks to me anymore, unless its about our finances. The only time he shows any affection is when he wants sex, which has dwindled down to a couple times a month, maybe. (Don't get me wrong, I try and try to seduce him, but he says no) I've suspected he was keeping something from me. Last night I found emails between him and his ex from a few weeks ago where he's telling her if she would have fought for him, he would have left me and he will always wish i was her. The sick part of it all is that she's his cousin... or second cousin... they're pretty close blood relatives.
I feel like second best and that he's just going through the motions and doesnt love me. I know I need to talk to him, but I'm afraid he is going to get upset at me. I don't want divorce. I just want to be happy with my husband, but if that's what it comes down to, then ok. Any suggestions on how to bring this up and what to say?
So my husband has been drifting away from me for a few months now. He rarely talks to me anymore, unless its about our finances. The only time he shows any affection is when he wants sex, which has dwindled down to a couple times a month, maybe. (Don't get me wrong, I try and try to seduce him, but he says no) I've suspected he was keeping something from me. Last night I found emails between him and his ex from a few weeks ago where he's telling her if she would have fought for him, he would have left me and he will always wish i was her. The sick part of it all is that she's his cousin... or second cousin... they're pretty close blood relatives.
I feel like second best and that he's just going through the motions and doesnt love me. I know I need to talk to him, but I'm afraid he is going to get upset at me. I don't want divorce. I just want to be happy with my husband, but if that's what it comes down to, then ok. Any suggestions on how to bring this up and what to say?
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