I am 28 and my husband is 38, we've been together for almost 5 years now and married for a year. Our sex life is not as good as I thought it would be. We were both average weight when we first met now we are obese. There were times where I would cry so hard because he would always reject me for wanting to make love with him and he would get mad because he is not a very affectionate person and dont know how to show sympathy towards me when I would cry because I was so hurt for his rejection. I used the blame game on him and asked him is it because I was fat or not attracted to him anymore and he would of course say no. I have tried to get him in the mood and grab him down there and he would just say hes not in the mood or hes sleepy. It hurts me and sometimes I wish I can yell at him or get mad at him or threaten him that I can go find someone who will fulfill my needs sexually and It hurts to even think like that but its how I feel but I wouldnt cheat on him ever. I am having a hard time trying to lose weight, I am looking for a job, maybe stress too can play a part in this but I sure do wish that someday he can be the man I need him to be. He showers once a week, and he doesn't believe in brushing his teeth at all but I love him and sometimes I wonder how I could be with a man who has bad hygiene. :(
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