Hi Guys,
As you can see by the title i'm in the boat where people are mistaking me for being gay. As you can sense by the title i'm totally liberal in the sense of equality and rights. As i see nothing personally wrong with it, each and everyone to their own etc. I've have never had a sexual attraction to members of the same sex, only ever girls. But this hasn't stopped certain people from spreading harmful rumours about me, harmful in the sense that it would reduce my chance of finding someone I could possibly have a relationship with in the future. It is also true that i live in a narrow-minded community, so I get a lot of sniggers, and disparaging remarks, in the street. I won't go into to much detail, but i suffered extreme interpersonal trauma at the age of 3-7 that has got in the way of forming relationships, something that just surfacing , so i have always found it hard on a personal note, with attachment etc . Although i've had come-ons by a few guys, i've had to turn them dow n, it is quite frequent which personally makes me uncomfortable. So yeah I feel kind of stuck, bothered not by the people spreading the rumours but the decent girls willing to believe them. I mean what do i do move away, eventually i guess i should don't even know who's spreading it anymore. But i tend to get remarks or assumptions most places i go now a days. Where as before the rumour spread everything was fine I'm confused what happened! Like i said my only is it will stop finding someone in the end.
Anyway guys
Any advise would be awesome
Thanks:)
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