Part of massage or not?

I have been talking to a man yesterday on the internet who served in the Military for 3 years in South Korea, and we got to the point of getting a massage. First off, everything seemed normal, but then we started talking about getting massages with topless hand relief. He told me that it's a normal practice for men in most countries, and that a man can't fully relax without a release.

I didn't know what to say, so i called it prostitution and he said that this is totally different to sex, and it's not on the same level as having sex with someone. I told him i view it the same, and he kind of started talking about relaxing it is, and that if a woman wants to help relax a man during a massage by giving him a sensual, ( he doesn't say sexual, but sensual) handjob, then there is nothing wrong with it.

He put out some impressive reasonings as to why he thinks so, and i was quite impressed, in both, good and bad ways since i personally didn't agree with him, although he seemed to be rather passionate about these massages, and i started getting this butterfly feeling in my stomach for some reason.

So..is this a common practice for men or not? and can it be termed as prositution?

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