Shoto's D-Day

I joined this forum in 2009 when I was looking for help and support in a very difficult marriage. I've never posted much detail about my situation but over the years I've found what others have posted here to be invaluable. A huge "thank you" to everyone who have shared their stories and/or offered helpful advice. I'm not posting this for any reason other then to drive a stake in the ground, draw a line in the sand, or close the book and mark (what I pray is the end) of the most difficult period of my life.

I was lied to repeatedly, stolen from, cheated on twice (that I know about), had false legal claims made against me, struck in the head, emotionally tormented, had my children used against me, lied about and had my heart broken. I stuck around for as long as I did because of my two young children and my belief that my ex has BPD. Well today its done. I am officially divorced and moving on from a train wreck of a marriage. I admire those who have long and happy marriages. Apparently that is not something I will have, but at least I am finally free to chart a new course and see what I might find. I choose to be happy.

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