My first post. But a long time visitor. First off I am married. Been with my wife 12 years, only married 1. So at work there's this attractive, beautiful other woman. Who I find myself hanging with all the time. I like being in her company. We laugh, share office gossip. She's also married. When I first laid eyes on her, I was instantly attracted to her. It started with some flirting. Nothing major. She's a huge flirt as well. Much better than I am. We did not hang as much before. Just did the casual office flirting with her. Compliments here and there. She never gave them back. Usually just said "thank you". I admitted one time, that I did like her. So I was gently told we were just friends...Well for obvious reasons. Fast forward a couple months later. We hadn't spoken since then. I was kind of embarrassed. So I laid low at work for a while. Things started up again. As I always make the first contact. We started hanging out more. Actually every night before we went home. We would just chat and make jokes about the other coworkers. I would get the "arm rub" when I made her laugh. Or the flirting touches. And recently we just started texting outside of work. Nothing sexual, just carrying on from our office chats. She once again told me, we are just friends. OK..No problem. But she does not want me texting her while she's home with her husband. Or when he's around. If he is around she would stop texting. And by now I know what it means. She said its "just innocent flirting". She gets jealous if I'm speaking to other female workers. Or if she sees me glancing too long at other women. I still give her compliments. But I never get any in return. Just the "you're so sweet" and "very thoughtful". I kind of get the impression she does like me. But will never admit it. I have no idea what this is. Can anyone shed light on this? Or am I reading too much into it. And just let it go?
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