My husband is nearly ten years my senior. I have always preferred older men. My husband personifies the good things about being with an older partner. He is reliable, mature, patient, doting and very sexually experienced. I always noticed that older men were much better in bed. I dated other older men in the past who were controlling and manipulative. By the time I met my husband, I was too confident to put up with that nonsense. Luckily, he is too secure in himself to try to mold me.
For some reason, I get so many people exclaiming over his age. I wish I had a dollar for everyone who asked me why I married an "old man". I also get many people commenting on how "old" my husband looks. I hardly think that forty is even approaching elderly. If a forty year old is healthy and they don't have any fatal accidents, he/she still has at least 30 more years to live. My husband does look older than I, but I don't think he looks like a senior citizen. :rofl: Also, I don't think our age difference is astronomical. It isn't as if I am in my early thirties and he is seventy five!
I'm wondering if the TAM community can shed some light on the reactions I get from others. I'm not sure why a ten year age difference is such a big deal. I am happy with our age disparity, but I wonder if it really is as creepy as people make it out to be.
For some reason, I get so many people exclaiming over his age. I wish I had a dollar for everyone who asked me why I married an "old man". I also get many people commenting on how "old" my husband looks. I hardly think that forty is even approaching elderly. If a forty year old is healthy and they don't have any fatal accidents, he/she still has at least 30 more years to live. My husband does look older than I, but I don't think he looks like a senior citizen. :rofl: Also, I don't think our age difference is astronomical. It isn't as if I am in my early thirties and he is seventy five!
I'm wondering if the TAM community can shed some light on the reactions I get from others. I'm not sure why a ten year age difference is such a big deal. I am happy with our age disparity, but I wonder if it really is as creepy as people make it out to be.
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