Hello TSR!
So, me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a while - but neither of us has taken the step yet of saying "I love you" to the other.
I most certainly feel like I love him, but I admit that I have not dared say anything because I would rather he said it first... ((and for me saying these three words is a BIG deal))
...but he still hasn't. Sometimes I wonder if maybe he doesn't love me, but honestly I can tell that he does care about me a lot, so maybe he just doesn't know yet, or he would rather I said these three words first.
I guess my question is, when do you say "I love you" to somebody, and although I don't want to reinforce gender roles, but do you personally think the man should say this and the woman should follow, or vice versa?
Basically, do I take this step, or is there any way I could hint at my boyfriend for him to say it or something that can be done to catalyse this happening, if he does indeed love me.
xx
So, me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a while - but neither of us has taken the step yet of saying "I love you" to the other.
I most certainly feel like I love him, but I admit that I have not dared say anything because I would rather he said it first... ((and for me saying these three words is a BIG deal))
...but he still hasn't. Sometimes I wonder if maybe he doesn't love me, but honestly I can tell that he does care about me a lot, so maybe he just doesn't know yet, or he would rather I said these three words first.
I guess my question is, when do you say "I love you" to somebody, and although I don't want to reinforce gender roles, but do you personally think the man should say this and the woman should follow, or vice versa?
Basically, do I take this step, or is there any way I could hint at my boyfriend for him to say it or something that can be done to catalyse this happening, if he does indeed love me.
xx
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