I have an admittedly petty question about facebook. I know I should just drop this but it's bugging me and I'm curious how others would feel.
Over the summer, my husband's friend from college was visiting our area after being gone for years for medical school. He introduced us to his girlfriend and we all hung out a few times. My H and I spent roughly the same amount of time with them as we were usually all hanging out together.
Just before she left, the girlfriend sent my H a friend request on FB but not me. I am NOT jealous or concerned about cheating or anything like that. It just hurt my feelings that she would send it to him and not me. It seemed a little rude IMO. But I basically let it go.
Yesterday she commented on my H's picture and he responded back and now it's brought it all back up again. Would this really annoy anyone else? I've mentioned that it hurts my feelings to my H but he doesn't really know what to do about it and thinks I'm being a little silly to let it bug me so much.
Again, this is NOT a concern about anything untoward going on. I have full access to H's facebook and no concerns about that. I just think it's rude to friend request one spouse and not the other, especially when you know them equally well.
Over the summer, my husband's friend from college was visiting our area after being gone for years for medical school. He introduced us to his girlfriend and we all hung out a few times. My H and I spent roughly the same amount of time with them as we were usually all hanging out together.
Just before she left, the girlfriend sent my H a friend request on FB but not me. I am NOT jealous or concerned about cheating or anything like that. It just hurt my feelings that she would send it to him and not me. It seemed a little rude IMO. But I basically let it go.
Yesterday she commented on my H's picture and he responded back and now it's brought it all back up again. Would this really annoy anyone else? I've mentioned that it hurts my feelings to my H but he doesn't really know what to do about it and thinks I'm being a little silly to let it bug me so much.
Again, this is NOT a concern about anything untoward going on. I have full access to H's facebook and no concerns about that. I just think it's rude to friend request one spouse and not the other, especially when you know them equally well.
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