below has gone on for years:
my husband always complains he is tired, he has headache, back pain, sh.t pain...... when i ask him to help me on the kids he has with me, so i let him rest, then he would not get up until 10am,
then he says he needs to go out to buy sth. then instead of going out to buy his sh.t, he will take a nap at 1pm, and would not get up until 4pm, then he will complain that he didn't get anything done, then at 5 pm he says again he needs to go out to buy things and he will not eat in home right after i make dinner, which makes me feel he has planned all time to go out in the night, ( this happens not just once)
or he will just come in house at dinner time and answers his ex phone during dinner , talk with her on the phone like nobody around, then tells me he has to go out and he can't continue dinner because his ex needs him to do something for the kids he has with her.
then any time when his ex ask him to help her on the kids he has w. her, he is no more tired, he is full of energy, he will agree to do it for her, he has no pain at all as he always tells me he has headache or whatever sh.t pain when i ask him to help me on the kids he has w. me.
when he helps his ex on the kids he has w. her , at the same time he refuses to help me on the kids he has w. me, AND MEANTIME he expect Sme to help him when he helps his ex, if I don't or if he doesn't think I help him enough or help him at the exact way he wants when he helps his ex, then he refuses to buy food and or clothes for the kids he has w. me, or he just simply keep the kids he has w. me hungry if I leave them to him and go out getting something done.
if i try to explain him that he needs to stop complaining to me that he has a"ss pain, Sh"t pain, whatever pain, or not get time to get things done because he not only doesn't help me around at all but sleep his A.s to 10am in the morning then tap to 4pm, but also just increasing my work load by agreeing his ex to help her at the kids he has w. her.
if i tell him that if somebody needs to listen his complaint of Sh"t or not get time to get things down, that one should be his ex, not me. i told him i have work my B.....off to take care our kids and the kids he has w. other woman, the housework i did in these years for these kids he has w. other woman ( his ex) after i married him has been more than what i had done in my entire life.
haha, now, he gets " good reason" to be pissed off, to call me crazy in front of our kids and his kids from other woman, to call me b.tch, to call me Pig, AND, he will just stay out of house overnight for days and never answer my calls, not even when the kids he has w. me were in hospital. l left message to him, he said his phone did not deliver it, his phone has been broken.....
plus, he comes up w. all kind of reasons no to sleep w. me but only F.CK w. me, then turn around and lie to everybody and tell whole neighborhood that I am the one initial not to sleep w. him.
you know what I mean when someone you thought he/she loves you, but, in reality , he/she just put you down constantly and frequently when it comes his/hers EX. and you let it go for the sake of the family, did all the housework, still can't satisfy him.......
What shall I do w. it?
my husband always complains he is tired, he has headache, back pain, sh.t pain...... when i ask him to help me on the kids he has with me, so i let him rest, then he would not get up until 10am,
then he says he needs to go out to buy sth. then instead of going out to buy his sh.t, he will take a nap at 1pm, and would not get up until 4pm, then he will complain that he didn't get anything done, then at 5 pm he says again he needs to go out to buy things and he will not eat in home right after i make dinner, which makes me feel he has planned all time to go out in the night, ( this happens not just once)
or he will just come in house at dinner time and answers his ex phone during dinner , talk with her on the phone like nobody around, then tells me he has to go out and he can't continue dinner because his ex needs him to do something for the kids he has with her.
then any time when his ex ask him to help her on the kids he has w. her, he is no more tired, he is full of energy, he will agree to do it for her, he has no pain at all as he always tells me he has headache or whatever sh.t pain when i ask him to help me on the kids he has w. me.
when he helps his ex on the kids he has w. her , at the same time he refuses to help me on the kids he has w. me, AND MEANTIME he expect Sme to help him when he helps his ex, if I don't or if he doesn't think I help him enough or help him at the exact way he wants when he helps his ex, then he refuses to buy food and or clothes for the kids he has w. me, or he just simply keep the kids he has w. me hungry if I leave them to him and go out getting something done.
if i try to explain him that he needs to stop complaining to me that he has a"ss pain, Sh"t pain, whatever pain, or not get time to get things done because he not only doesn't help me around at all but sleep his A.s to 10am in the morning then tap to 4pm, but also just increasing my work load by agreeing his ex to help her at the kids he has w. her.
if i tell him that if somebody needs to listen his complaint of Sh"t or not get time to get things down, that one should be his ex, not me. i told him i have work my B.....off to take care our kids and the kids he has w. other woman, the housework i did in these years for these kids he has w. other woman ( his ex) after i married him has been more than what i had done in my entire life.
haha, now, he gets " good reason" to be pissed off, to call me crazy in front of our kids and his kids from other woman, to call me b.tch, to call me Pig, AND, he will just stay out of house overnight for days and never answer my calls, not even when the kids he has w. me were in hospital. l left message to him, he said his phone did not deliver it, his phone has been broken.....
plus, he comes up w. all kind of reasons no to sleep w. me but only F.CK w. me, then turn around and lie to everybody and tell whole neighborhood that I am the one initial not to sleep w. him.
you know what I mean when someone you thought he/she loves you, but, in reality , he/she just put you down constantly and frequently when it comes his/hers EX. and you let it go for the sake of the family, did all the housework, still can't satisfy him.......
What shall I do w. it?
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