I am 27 and my husband is 26. We have been married for 4 years. About a few ago, I had an affair with a married man and as a result got pregnant in June. When I informed him , he cut off all contact and returned back to his country. But I wanted to keep the baby and so told my husband I am pregnant. He didn't know about the affair and was delighted thinking it is his child.
My marriage anniversary was in November. My mother wanted to mail herself our anniversary pics and tried to log into her mail a/c but wrongly accessed my secret mail id. She saw the mail exchanges with the other man and had a stroke. Since that day I have been shunned by my family, my husband's family and even my closest friends.
My husband upon coming to know of the affair didn't speak for a week. I have tried to talk to him about my affair but all he says is that he will take care of me till the baby's born and then we can get a divorce and split it 60:40 in my favor. He has allowed me to talk to him regarding only my needs in the house and nothing else. I know he is taking care of me because he knows I have no where else to go, no one else to turn to.
I have realized what a great person my husband is and I want to stay with him forever. I deserve nothing other than hatred for me from him but I don't see any emotion in him for me at all. He acts as if I am his co-passenger on a bus and trying to be pleasant till he gets off. How can I make him give me another chance or have I lost him forever?
My marriage anniversary was in November. My mother wanted to mail herself our anniversary pics and tried to log into her mail a/c but wrongly accessed my secret mail id. She saw the mail exchanges with the other man and had a stroke. Since that day I have been shunned by my family, my husband's family and even my closest friends.
My husband upon coming to know of the affair didn't speak for a week. I have tried to talk to him about my affair but all he says is that he will take care of me till the baby's born and then we can get a divorce and split it 60:40 in my favor. He has allowed me to talk to him regarding only my needs in the house and nothing else. I know he is taking care of me because he knows I have no where else to go, no one else to turn to.
I have realized what a great person my husband is and I want to stay with him forever. I deserve nothing other than hatred for me from him but I don't see any emotion in him for me at all. He acts as if I am his co-passenger on a bus and trying to be pleasant till he gets off. How can I make him give me another chance or have I lost him forever?
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