Count hb works out of town little less than half year per year, I take care our babies like a single mother
Count hb has the kids he has with his ex come to my house 180 days per year, I work my B***off like a single mother to take care my babies, his kids and him plus listening to his complaint & whinny
the time left for the family he forms w. me it less than 2 months per year
you would think in this less than 2 months per year is going to be just for the family he forms with me
but in our 8 years marriage, mostly he only does 3 things listed below in this pitty less than 2 months per year:
1. when I ask him to help me on the kids he has with me he whinny that he has headache, he has back pain, he has Sh*t pain in order to sleep late to 10 or 10:30 am, take a nap to 4 pm;
2. so if I let him sleep late and nap later than our babies since he has back pain, Sh*t pain, then he whinnies that he need to do exercise, I didn't give him enough time to let him get his things done, ..... then he will go out to get his things done after dinner and would not come back till midnight which makes me feel he actually is getting his F.CK done
or he will simply stay overnight out of house for days and refuse answer my call completely by provoking me like: " it 's bad for our babies to be taken care by you, you r crazy, ......." after I work my B***off to take care of our babies , his kids and him like a single mother, no help at all, but just constantly mess made by him and his kids.....
3. if he is not doing 2 of above, he would help his ex to have their kids to come to our house and expect me to wait on them, pick their mass, and forbid them to say thanks to me. if he doesn't think I help enough he withhold food and clothes etc. from me and our babies,
So, count on this little less than 2 months a year when hb supposedly not working, shall not have his kids from his past marriage in my house, I I still not only work my B***off like SINGLE Mother but also a rejected wife, disrespected Single Mother to take care him, his kids from his past marriage and my babies plus listening to his complain & whinny
With above happened, I am now at the place where I have detached, I don't try to work on the marriage because I just can't, I am resigned to a marriage without intimate connection. I share none of the normal stuff with him such as my medical information and day to day things outside the most basic, I don't share any personal worries or concerns with him. I've just given up.
We operate as a household and partnership for practical concerns and that is it.
since I decide to give up on relationship, should I just let HB stay out over night for day or stay late till midnight, or i still should stop him doing do?
if u guys think i should stop him, how I do it?
Merry Christmas!!!
Count hb has the kids he has with his ex come to my house 180 days per year, I work my B***off like a single mother to take care my babies, his kids and him plus listening to his complaint & whinny
the time left for the family he forms w. me it less than 2 months per year
you would think in this less than 2 months per year is going to be just for the family he forms with me
but in our 8 years marriage, mostly he only does 3 things listed below in this pitty less than 2 months per year:
1. when I ask him to help me on the kids he has with me he whinny that he has headache, he has back pain, he has Sh*t pain in order to sleep late to 10 or 10:30 am, take a nap to 4 pm;
2. so if I let him sleep late and nap later than our babies since he has back pain, Sh*t pain, then he whinnies that he need to do exercise, I didn't give him enough time to let him get his things done, ..... then he will go out to get his things done after dinner and would not come back till midnight which makes me feel he actually is getting his F.CK done
or he will simply stay overnight out of house for days and refuse answer my call completely by provoking me like: " it 's bad for our babies to be taken care by you, you r crazy, ......." after I work my B***off to take care of our babies , his kids and him like a single mother, no help at all, but just constantly mess made by him and his kids.....
3. if he is not doing 2 of above, he would help his ex to have their kids to come to our house and expect me to wait on them, pick their mass, and forbid them to say thanks to me. if he doesn't think I help enough he withhold food and clothes etc. from me and our babies,
So, count on this little less than 2 months a year when hb supposedly not working, shall not have his kids from his past marriage in my house, I I still not only work my B***off like SINGLE Mother but also a rejected wife, disrespected Single Mother to take care him, his kids from his past marriage and my babies plus listening to his complain & whinny
With above happened, I am now at the place where I have detached, I don't try to work on the marriage because I just can't, I am resigned to a marriage without intimate connection. I share none of the normal stuff with him such as my medical information and day to day things outside the most basic, I don't share any personal worries or concerns with him. I've just given up.
We operate as a household and partnership for practical concerns and that is it.
since I decide to give up on relationship, should I just let HB stay out over night for day or stay late till midnight, or i still should stop him doing do?
if u guys think i should stop him, how I do it?
Merry Christmas!!!
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