Hello friends, and newly cheated on. First I want to say that there are no winners in infidelity. It sucks that this place exits but happy it was there for me.
Its been a year and change since I found out the wife I had was not what I believed her to be. The story is all in the history if anybody cares. I am staying away from that .. still stings when I read it. But and a big But is that it goes away.
I no-longer have those bad PTSD like flash back about the whole thing.
time and friends where my cure. I am now more excited about the future than I ever was married to that tra8mp. I am able to do what I want with out the nag or complaints that where always around.
I am a change man that hurt allot. Yes but feel the pain and time has allowed me to grow as an individual. I am not saying am happy any of it happen but I am saying that the feeling of dis-pare and "lost life" goes away.
just for the curious--> I did no jail time .. charges got dropped.
the tra8mp now dates looser from match.com.
I quit my job to focus on starting my own software shop.
I stopped brewing and drinking as much beer, more a single malt man now.
I lost 60 pounds and followed the advice of changing my hair attitude and dress. It help remind my self that times are diferent now.
i started dating .. this is really , really hard but stick with it.. my advice is don't date anybody you find really , really attractive right away. The rust shows and you prob feel worst when you realize you are the one that pushed all the hot chicks away.
All and all I feel complete again and this time is just me no other person to make me feel happy. this is the key. it takes time took me about 10 months but it happened.
Thanks friends that where there for me. to many to list but you know how awesome you Guys\Dolls are. I could not be here with out you guys. you saved my life.I don't come back to this site because I am afraid of the emotions I felt on 0 day.
Again thanks you for being there to listen and provide advice on the worst time of my life.
still suck at spelling need intelisence lol.
,:beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer:
Its been a year and change since I found out the wife I had was not what I believed her to be. The story is all in the history if anybody cares. I am staying away from that .. still stings when I read it. But and a big But is that it goes away.
I no-longer have those bad PTSD like flash back about the whole thing.
time and friends where my cure. I am now more excited about the future than I ever was married to that tra8mp. I am able to do what I want with out the nag or complaints that where always around.
I am a change man that hurt allot. Yes but feel the pain and time has allowed me to grow as an individual. I am not saying am happy any of it happen but I am saying that the feeling of dis-pare and "lost life" goes away.
just for the curious--> I did no jail time .. charges got dropped.
the tra8mp now dates looser from match.com.
I quit my job to focus on starting my own software shop.
I stopped brewing and drinking as much beer, more a single malt man now.
I lost 60 pounds and followed the advice of changing my hair attitude and dress. It help remind my self that times are diferent now.
i started dating .. this is really , really hard but stick with it.. my advice is don't date anybody you find really , really attractive right away. The rust shows and you prob feel worst when you realize you are the one that pushed all the hot chicks away.
All and all I feel complete again and this time is just me no other person to make me feel happy. this is the key. it takes time took me about 10 months but it happened.
Thanks friends that where there for me. to many to list but you know how awesome you Guys\Dolls are. I could not be here with out you guys. you saved my life.I don't come back to this site because I am afraid of the emotions I felt on 0 day.
Again thanks you for being there to listen and provide advice on the worst time of my life.
still suck at spelling need intelisence lol.
,:beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer:
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