I've 20 and have never dated, kissed, anything. I like my life at uni but i don't really meet new people. There are no guys in my lectures (all girls), i only have one society which is all girls, (i joined two others in my first year but everyone was either in groups or the guys were really arrogant and weren't interested in talking to me anyway) and my roommates/friends are introverts so we just hang out together.
I have confidence and self-esteem issues (which makes me shy) so this doesn't help. I'm scared i'm never going to meet someone, let alone someone who's interested in me.
I know you shouldn't depend on someone to make you happy, and i don't, i'm happy. But every now and then i get lonely wishing i had someone i could tell my thoughts to, and someone who can make me laugh when i'm sad and someone i can curl up with and watch tv with. My two best friends live with their long term gf/bf so seeing them together adds to the loneliness i feel.
Does anyone else feel really lonely (and scared that they're going to be alone forever)? Do you think it's possible for people to be alone forever?
Sometimes i search '25 and never dated' and a few posts come up which make me feel better, but then there's '46 and never dated' and i get super scared that i'll be like that.
I have confidence and self-esteem issues (which makes me shy) so this doesn't help. I'm scared i'm never going to meet someone, let alone someone who's interested in me.
I know you shouldn't depend on someone to make you happy, and i don't, i'm happy. But every now and then i get lonely wishing i had someone i could tell my thoughts to, and someone who can make me laugh when i'm sad and someone i can curl up with and watch tv with. My two best friends live with their long term gf/bf so seeing them together adds to the loneliness i feel.
Does anyone else feel really lonely (and scared that they're going to be alone forever)? Do you think it's possible for people to be alone forever?
Sometimes i search '25 and never dated' and a few posts come up which make me feel better, but then there's '46 and never dated' and i get super scared that i'll be like that.
Put the internet to work for you.
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