| me and my wife has been married for over 12 years. she has a child (who is now 15) by someone else before i got with her. after one year of marriage, got pregenent and we had a child of our own (he is now 10) after the birth of him back in nov. of 2002, she got on the birth control patch and from there the sex has gone by the waste side. i went 6 months (feb 03) to august 03 without the sex. then it was a couple of times then a 5 month delay and so on so on so on....well, over the past i would say 5 years, we may have had sex....11 times total in 5 years. currently in a 9 month funk and this is after going through a 9 month funk previously. so you can say...2 times in 22 months. and a few times in those months i have heard: not in the mood, just want to go to bed cause tired....not feeling good....etc. in fact on my birthday she said she wasn't in the mood and that hurts to hear it. there is times she gets mad at me claiming t hat is all i think of is sex and i told her you blame me??? i am kinda getting tired of being the one who be the aggresser and she not putting any effort in. i am at wits end here on what more i can do and what more i can put up with. we are church going family and i can't see myself divorcing and don't want to hurt the kids over this but same time....i am tired of watching her go to bed at 830...900 and not wanting anything to do with me at that time. |
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