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Not sure if I'm seperated or not? Do i have a chance of getting her back

I've been with my girlfriend for 15 years and a couple of weeks ago we had a big argument after i took a picture of her drunk and posted it on facebook. She has since moved out and moved in with her mother.

80% of the time we got on OK, however we had a reocurring argument whereby i would get jealous each time she would go out. I have tried to speak to her but she will not engage in conversation and says to me that she needs space.

A week ago she sent me the following email.



james, i need u to understand that i no longer want to go out with u. I am sorry for all the pain n heart ache this will bring u. I jst cant do this anymore. I am jst hurting too mch to try again. I gave my all to this relationship n i am spent. I cannot give anymore. U r a gd man n i want u to find happiness. I want u to cherish the gd times we had. I always will. Its now time to move on. Things will b difficult to resolve but i hope u will respect my wishes. I dont want to hurt u. I am sorry i have to do this by text but when i try to do it face to face u dont take it in. Please dont follow me around or get in touch with my family and friends. Its not fair on them. I will try speaking to you next week when you have had time to take it in. Please, lets just give eachothr sm space for a week at least. Tell ur mum n dad i am sorry n that i hav tried my best. I promise i will be fair and amicable in resolving how we part ways. Kate. X


Two days after this email she called me and said that she had been to see a councillor and from what the councillor has said to her it will be difficult for me to overcome my issues. I said i would really like the opportunity to try to work things out and she then told me that if we do work things out it'll be a while before she moves back in - we have a very nice house and life together. She was very nice on the phone and we spoke for over 2 hours. She said that she would like another 3 weeks before we spoke again, i agreed. I told her that i was also seeing a councillor and would do anything to win her back.

I'm very confused. Can anyone explain to me if we are seperated and if i have a chance of salvaging our relationship, i do really love her.

Many thanks




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