| Hi, Please, I need help! I would like to hear other women's opinion on this. We recently moved to Vegas due to my husband's work. And his best friend in CA has an office in Vegas so he comes to town all the time. So they started hanging out on the strip and go to clubs all night (till 3am, etc, come home next morning) and his friend even has a condo right on the strip so they just go upstairs and sleep there. My husband has been faithful to me (so he says) for all these years, BUT he is super flirtatious (he admits) and that caused a lot of issues in our marriage in the past. So of course, though I trust him, I still do NOT feel comfortable at all him hanging out with his buddy (whose wife does not seem to care about what he does) all night on the strip all the time. He says they go to night clubs where a lot of young people are dancing. When I said to him I have a problem with this, he said to me "so long as I don't have sex with other women, I should be able to do anything I want." and he said if I try to stop that, he will divorce me. What I want to know is, Is he being reasonable about "so long as I don't have sex with other women, I should be able to do what I want" or am I being unreasonable having issue with this. Because he is one of those guys who are super flirtatious with women, I can't even sleep when he is out partying with his buddy on the strip, not to mention they have a room too. He says he will never ever cheat me but many men don't plan things like that sometimes it just happens (carried away sort of), especially in Sin City where many men & women are looking for one-night stand fun. He thinks I am so unreasonable that he says he cannot stay in this marriage if he can't do this. I am ok with if this is once every couple of months thing but not every weekend. I understand "either you trust or not" thing ; however, does this sound normal for married man to do to his wife? I would appreciate any comment on this from other married women. | |||
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