| I've been in a relationship with my long distance boyfriend for a year and a half now, and it's been going really well (for the most part). We have the occasional argument, but we always manage to solve it either that day or the next. The thing is, we've hit a point where it's always the same argument. My boyfriend says he loves me more than anything and will wait for me as long as I need to move to him, but when I ask him to spend some time on Skype or try to cheer me up after a bad day, he always says I'm guilt-tripping him and that he has other things to do. I spend unbelievable amounts of time on him, making sure that he is happy. Whenever he's had a rough day, I take hours out of my day and spend it on Skype, doing whatever I can to make him laugh and forget about the stuff that went on earlier. There have been times when he's going through a rough spot, and I've sent him care packages filled with candy, photos, and little things to make him smile. Even when he's been sick, I've stayed on Skype with him to make sure that he is ok. Whenever he's got a problem, I'm there for him without complaint, because I love him and want him to be happy. I do my best to make sure I'm in a cheery mood when we talk so that he doesn't have to deal with the stress of an unhappy girlfriend, but sometimes it just isn't possible. With a lot of stress in my life, I can't always be happy, and when I'm not, he brushes it off and says he can't be bothered to put in the effort to help. I just don't understand how if he actually loved me more than anything in the world, he could just not be bothered to help make my ****ty day a little bit better. I know that with long distance, it's hard to be there for someone at the drop of a hat. But I know that I've put in loads of effort, and while I know that I go above and beyond sometimes, it'd be nice if he could do the same once in a while. I don't think he appreciates what I do for him, and while I don't want to break up with him at all, I've been feeling lately that I deserve someone who puts in the same efforts as I do and who shows that they care a little bit more. Any thoughts? | |||
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Am I too good for my boyfriend?
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